When a relationship whether it's between lovers or friends, end, we find ourselves asking a lot of questions to ourselves. Am I the one who wrong? Did I unknowingly make mistake? Why did he/she/them left me? What went wrong that it got to this? How? When?
We expected them to be with us for a long time, it's only natural that these questions come to our mind. We met, we got to know each other and it took time to get comfortable around each other, we cared about them, we loved, cherish and shared secrets with them, of course we didn't see the separation coming. We fought and made up. We kept some secrets from each other. And maybe we never think that it would get so bad, but some relationships just can't be fixed. Maybe externally the relationship looked just fine, but internally it wasn't. Maybe to us the relationship was great but maybe to the other person, it just wasn't right. There are a lot of things that can cause an end to a relationship.
If an end is supposed to happen, it's gonna happen. It'll hurt us, break us to pieces and sometimes it make people lose themselves. But you know what? Relationships between humans are all going to end anyway. Only relationship between you and God that is going to last forever. That's why when we are in those relationships, cherish it. Don't take it for granted because we never know when or how it's going to end.
When the relationships end, don't blame yourself too much. Maybe you were wrong in some ways, but learn from it because there'll be another person who'll come to your life. There'll be new relationships, and in the future, try to do better.
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